The Failure…..

“It matters not whether you win or lose; what matters is whether I win or lose.”
As the above quotation indicates sheepishly, people are really like this. Quick to console the others, but themselves are quite inconsolable. What if you were in the same set of circumstances that led to one’s failure. I find myself many a times in the same kind of awkward situation when I have to console a friend or an acquaintance of mine who has just faced a failure. The failure, had it occurred to me, would have shattered me into pieces. Then how can I lie to any of my friend by saying that it just doesn’t matter. Totally direction less in this regard…. Don’t know how to proceed in such matters…. I just can’t say the things to others with double standards embedded therein….

The Lone Journey.........

Have you ever felt alone in this world, despite of being surrounded by masses? Neither the question is new nor I am talking about any supernatural experience, but many a times we feel this but don’t think about it. We think it does not merit consideration or many a times we ignore it by contemplating that due to immediate circumstances or happenings, we are feeling upset. But is it that simple? I don’t want to sound pessimistic but often I felt that this is the truth of life. And yes it is hard. I don’t know about the people who spend their life enjoying in one way or the other, but in nut shell we do not get what we expect ideally. People, friends, family members, loved ones no matter how close they are become so strange at times that we begin to feel that we are here alone with no one to share our heart. Psychology and mental chemical imbalance may also play a substantial role in it but ultimately what prevails is a lasting impression about our general approach about life. And when I am saying all this I am keeping depressed people and other similar people with any kind of medical condition out of it. I am talking about a person who is as normal and yet so abnormal as I feel I am.

The First Thought...

When you are asked to tell, "What life is?", then what comes in your mind? A normal brain who thinks mediocre do not face such kind of questions or even when they face such things, they find a way out or try to find a way out of it. But when the same question is asked to a thinker’s mind, it make them think deeply and wisely and the outcome is fantastic. So what the thing or the feeling called life actually is....? Well to me, it’s a journey, so long when you think of future but so short when you look behind. I feel that since I started the journey although it was a bit difficult to go through, but was covered in a lightening fast manner which provided me no opportunity to think about how I was going to make it